Mixedlinks
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Should I ask her if she is dating other people?
- Thread starter Mixedlinks
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I can't believe you are even asking this brother...
You have gone out with this girl 3 TIMES!!!! Obviously she isn't dating anyone, and if she ends up telling you that she is then she's probably lying to you because she put you in the friend zone for keeping her waiting so much! When are you going to make your move on her?? She's only human can't keep the poor gal waiting forever!
Asking her if she is dating other people is the last thing you should have on your mind. The first thing you should have on your mind is escalating and kissing her and kissing her ASAP!
If you don't make your move then guess what? she will think you don't like her as a possible romantic partner and she will inevitably end up in the arms of some guy that shows her some love. Women lose their patience..
When a woman agrees to go out with you
1. It's because she finds you attractive/interesting or a combination of both
2. She would be open to see "where this can lead" as in a possible relationship
3. She's ready for romance again. Women want romance and action as much as we do.
Just remember the above for next time and try to kiss close by the 2nd or third date.
hb: how many girlfriends have you had
hero: 167
You never want to be seen as a lonely virgin that doesn't get women. Just lie, exaggerate. Women are attracted to men that have or have had lots of women in their lives.
You have gone out with this girl 3 TIMES!!!! Obviously she isn't dating anyone, and if she ends up telling you that she is then she's probably lying to you because she put you in the friend zone for keeping her waiting so much! When are you going to make your move on her?? She's only human can't keep the poor gal waiting forever!
Asking her if she is dating other people is the last thing you should have on your mind. The first thing you should have on your mind is escalating and kissing her and kissing her ASAP!
If you don't make your move then guess what? she will think you don't like her as a possible romantic partner and she will inevitably end up in the arms of some guy that shows her some love. Women lose their patience..
When a woman agrees to go out with you
1. It's because she finds you attractive/interesting or a combination of both
2. She would be open to see "where this can lead" as in a possible relationship
3. She's ready for romance again. Women want romance and action as much as we do.
Just remember the above for next time and try to kiss close by the 2nd or third date.
Exagerate
hb: how many girlfriends have you had
hero: 167
You never want to be seen as a lonely virgin that doesn't get women. Just lie, exaggerate. Women are attracted to men that have or have had lots of women in their lives.
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I haven't come on here that much anymore & now I know why!!!
Are you that socially inept & needy that you need validation? 4 DATES??? Please tell me you at least got heavy into kissing & touching before worrying about asking her dating experiences?
OK here's the lesson:
Girls date, girls fu*k, girls have lives...your job is to make them forget about ALL other activities & 'boys' in their lives!! you don't ask about who shes dating, who shes bang*in...you know why? because shouting loudly in your head should be the words, "SHES ONLY THINKING ABOUT ME BECAUSE IM THE BEST THING SINCE SLICED BREAD"
be confident! be cool & dont worry if shes exclusive
Are you that socially inept & needy that you need validation? 4 DATES??? Please tell me you at least got heavy into kissing & touching before worrying about asking her dating experiences?
OK here's the lesson:
Girls date, girls fu*k, girls have lives...your job is to make them forget about ALL other activities & 'boys' in their lives!! you don't ask about who shes dating, who shes bang*in...you know why? because shouting loudly in your head should be the words, "SHES ONLY THINKING ABOUT ME BECAUSE IM THE BEST THING SINCE SLICED BREAD"
be confident! be cool & dont worry if shes exclusive
Naughty Ninja
Banned
To the TS. Don't ask her anything like that. And don't wait.
Those who wait....masturbate.
Those who wait....masturbate.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Should be also noted other than all the obvious things the others have pointed out and are spot on about, your moving BACKWARDS IN this scenario. Dates usually work something like this:
1st date: couple drinks at a local watering hole
2nd date: action date (bowling/mini golf/carnival etc)
3rd date: wine tasting or something like going to the beach etc
4th date: movie night aka: get some night
As many have said before, sexual attraction isn't something that is negotiated like a contract; its either there or it isn't. If its there and you two go out a few times, chances are she wants to fuvk you just as much as you want to fuvk her.
The reason your left scratching your head here and she's "hard to read" is all on you bro. I don't even need to ask you if you've kissed her, felt her up, banged her etc because I know you haven't done any of it. Remember if your not progressing your REGRESSING and those that regress are always the ones who start to question everything. Its a vicious cycle that then leads to you over-analyzing, which leads to you not being the guy that got her interest in the first place...... you see where this is going right?
Answer these questions:
1) What are your conversations about on these dates?
2) Has she touched you? Even casually?
3) Have you touched her?
4) Does she give off any sort of sexual vibe?
The situation looks bleak, but you might be able to salvage it if you get your act together.
PIMP
1st date: couple drinks at a local watering hole
2nd date: action date (bowling/mini golf/carnival etc)
3rd date: wine tasting or something like going to the beach etc
4th date: movie night aka: get some night
As many have said before, sexual attraction isn't something that is negotiated like a contract; its either there or it isn't. If its there and you two go out a few times, chances are she wants to fuvk you just as much as you want to fuvk her.
The reason your left scratching your head here and she's "hard to read" is all on you bro. I don't even need to ask you if you've kissed her, felt her up, banged her etc because I know you haven't done any of it. Remember if your not progressing your REGRESSING and those that regress are always the ones who start to question everything. Its a vicious cycle that then leads to you over-analyzing, which leads to you not being the guy that got her interest in the first place...... you see where this is going right?
Answer these questions:
1) What are your conversations about on these dates?
2) Has she touched you? Even casually?
3) Have you touched her?
4) Does she give off any sort of sexual vibe?
The situation looks bleak, but you might be able to salvage it if you get your act together.
PIMP