"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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should I ask for these girl's numbers

JPlaya

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One, I occasionally fb chat and she seems interested, but she looks like one of those overly friendly type of girls.

The other I don't talk to much, but she smiles at me in the hallway and I had a brief conversation with her. I think she's in to me, but she's one of those overly Christian girls.

I'm going to also have to do it over fb since school is over.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gam

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I could be wrong but I can't see you making too much head way with either girl. Unless you further develop rapport with the first girl she won't be very responsive and people are kinda superficial on facebook so it's hard to tell if there's any genuine interest.

You don't seem that interested in the christian girl but her probably interest in you seems to be what's tugging at you. For this girl it really depends on what your goals are. If you just want to get close and have her become your gf then approaching her wouldn't be bad since the ball is in your court, but if you're looking for sex then I'd say look elsewhere.

Hope this helps
 

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I've talked to the first girl in person. She started talking to me and we got moved close together in class. The connection broke when the teachers separated us, but I still say hi to her and stuff.
 

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No. You shouldn't.

How's that for an answer? You shouldn't ask them for their numbers.
 

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What would you have to lose if you asked both for their numbers?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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