“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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should I ask for these girl's numbers

JPlaya

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One, I occasionally fb chat and she seems interested, but she looks like one of those overly friendly type of girls.

The other I don't talk to much, but she smiles at me in the hallway and I had a brief conversation with her. I think she's in to me, but she's one of those overly Christian girls.

I'm going to also have to do it over fb since school is over.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gam

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I could be wrong but I can't see you making too much head way with either girl. Unless you further develop rapport with the first girl she won't be very responsive and people are kinda superficial on facebook so it's hard to tell if there's any genuine interest.

You don't seem that interested in the christian girl but her probably interest in you seems to be what's tugging at you. For this girl it really depends on what your goals are. If you just want to get close and have her become your gf then approaching her wouldn't be bad since the ball is in your court, but if you're looking for sex then I'd say look elsewhere.

Hope this helps
 

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I've talked to the first girl in person. She started talking to me and we got moved close together in class. The connection broke when the teachers separated us, but I still say hi to her and stuff.
 

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No. You shouldn't.

How's that for an answer? You shouldn't ask them for their numbers.
 

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What would you have to lose if you asked both for their numbers?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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