Should I ask a female out more then once if they don't respond?

[jackhamma]

Hey everyone,

I have been meeting a lot of women online and getting a few phone numbers. I text them, we start talking, and I ask them on a date and most of them not all, but most are busy or have an excuse.

This one I am really into I asked her on a date and she told me she was super busy this week but lets try for next week! So a week later I asked her out again for Wednesday and she said she might have a birthday party but she will let me know!

She has not gotten back to me. Is it loser/desperate/needy if I message her again to see when SHE is available? Or should I just cut my losses with women like this? Thanks!

 

[Sensible]

Drop it man, she'll get back to you if she really wants. You should have learned by now that chasing girls never works. If you message her after this point you will look like one of those losers. And probably she has dozens of other men like you. Anyway, why are you trying it on internet? Go out there and try the real world. Meet with people, interact personally. How can they like you without seeing you?

Another thing is, the way you ask her out is not correct. You shouldn't say something like "can we meet on wednesday". What you should say is "when are you free this week?".

 

[Redwood]

If she never had a counteroffer, forget about her, brother.

Focus on your other potential plates.

 

[Rainman4707]

Yeah most of the time it's a lost cause in your situation. Quite recently I met up with a HB 7.7 a few times. We had fun on all 3 meetings, but she wouldn't kiss me. I normally wouldn't ask a girl the ? "whats going on with us" but I felt that it would'nt progress any further if I didn't..so I asked her "what do you see me as? A friend? We then agreed to meet up next day & see what happens. I've been kissing her & ****ing her ever since.

You know everything that has happened between you & this girl so you are best to make the decision..all we can do here is give advice on what you have wrote. I think some people on here give up to easily. Maybe you could ask her out once more.

You think that you're "really into her" but she will more than likely be different than you imagine when you meet her.

 

[El Payaso]

FLAKE!!!! I know this all too well. Lol.

 

[VladPatton]

Definitely cut your losses. A lot of them do it for attention and to make themselves feel busy, wanted, and like celebrities. Shıt's ridiculously outta control.

 

[I_was_born_a_PIMP]

No!! Get off this online dating sh!t and go into the real world. Online is for the WEAK!!!

 

[SgtSplacker]

Helps the way you ask them too, I try to make my requests count because I do not make many.

Instead of picking a date ask her if she wants to do something "this weekend" and get some input from her. Then if she flakes or for some reason can't find time you can be a little more decisive in cutting her AWing arse off...

I think that even if a girl is interested in you she might get turned off by repeated failed attempts... don't want her getting too used to telling you no.