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Should A Man Lead & Arrange All The Dates?

soulforge

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
 

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
 

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
If you let a woman arrange things you'll end in a room full of kokblockers.
 
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