"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should A Man Lead & Arrange All The Dates?

soulforge

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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soulforge

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
 

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Ok so date 6 is tonight. When I say date six, I mean she will come to my house, we will eat, chill and smash.

It's now 6 dates/meets that I have arranged..

I'm at the point now, where I think I should be taking the back seat and let her make some effort in meeting up?

I am also getting the feeling that she is getting a little complacent, and expecting me to put ALL the work in, in order for us to meet.

We talked about getting together this coming Saturday, she sounded happy about meeting up, however I think it is best to leave the ball in her court?

Let her reconfirm the date, and check if we are still meeting?

If she doesn't reach out, then that tells me, either it's low interest... Or she has become complacent, meaning if I don't reach out then the date doesn't happen.
If you let a woman arrange things you'll end in a room full of kokblockers.
 
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