"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should a girlfriend prevent you from improving your game?

sybertiger

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Hey boys,

I've been doing some Djing as of this last year until a terrible thing happened - I got myself a girlfriend (ahh)!

Now don't get me wrong - this girl is pretty smoking hot (has done some modeling), is goes to a top university and, amazingly, is actually funny and interesting to hang out with. Needless to say, I want to hang on to her for a while but I feel like I just got my Dj skills rolling and would hate to quit before I got a little better.

Basically, I was wondering if you guys had any ideas for practicing DJ skills while you have a girl in the background. I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close. Any ideas?

~ Syber
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo

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Originally posted by sybertiger
I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close.
Sounds to me like that's just being friendly. No, there isn't anything wrong with that.
 

PRMoon

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DJing is more then just a practiced skill. It's a mentality and a way of life. If you practice DJism enough, it should become integrated into your every day routine reagardless of the situation you're currently in.
 

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Maybe I should have worded my question like this: What can you do to stay DJ sharp and maximize your results when you return to single life while you have a GF?
 

diablo

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Act as if you didn't have a girlfriend... how far you want to take that is up to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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