"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should a girlfriend prevent you from improving your game?

sybertiger

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Hey boys,

I've been doing some Djing as of this last year until a terrible thing happened - I got myself a girlfriend (ahh)!

Now don't get me wrong - this girl is pretty smoking hot (has done some modeling), is goes to a top university and, amazingly, is actually funny and interesting to hang out with. Needless to say, I want to hang on to her for a while but I feel like I just got my Dj skills rolling and would hate to quit before I got a little better.

Basically, I was wondering if you guys had any ideas for practicing DJ skills while you have a girl in the background. I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close. Any ideas?

~ Syber
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by sybertiger
I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close.
Sounds to me like that's just being friendly. No, there isn't anything wrong with that.
 

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DJing is more then just a practiced skill. It's a mentality and a way of life. If you practice DJism enough, it should become integrated into your every day routine reagardless of the situation you're currently in.
 

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Maybe I should have worded my question like this: What can you do to stay DJ sharp and maximize your results when you return to single life while you have a GF?
 

diablo

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Act as if you didn't have a girlfriend... how far you want to take that is up to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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