"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should a girlfriend prevent you from improving your game?

sybertiger

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Hey boys,

I've been doing some Djing as of this last year until a terrible thing happened - I got myself a girlfriend (ahh)!

Now don't get me wrong - this girl is pretty smoking hot (has done some modeling), is goes to a top university and, amazingly, is actually funny and interesting to hang out with. Needless to say, I want to hang on to her for a while but I feel like I just got my Dj skills rolling and would hate to quit before I got a little better.

Basically, I was wondering if you guys had any ideas for practicing DJ skills while you have a girl in the background. I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close. Any ideas?

~ Syber
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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Originally posted by sybertiger
I was imagining I could still do approaches and the like, I'll just quit before I close.
Sounds to me like that's just being friendly. No, there isn't anything wrong with that.
 

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DJing is more then just a practiced skill. It's a mentality and a way of life. If you practice DJism enough, it should become integrated into your every day routine reagardless of the situation you're currently in.
 

sybertiger

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Maybe I should have worded my question like this: What can you do to stay DJ sharp and maximize your results when you return to single life while you have a GF?
 

diablo

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Act as if you didn't have a girlfriend... how far you want to take that is up to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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