"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should A Daun Tolorate Dissrispect?

Guitarfreakelite

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when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
Dude you sure as hell are missing the point.

If a chick rejects you in any wya shape or form you simply say,
"Well it was nice talking to you, Have a great life"

Your a man, not a wimp who cares what other people think about you.
 

Wonderbread166

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You've been here for three years and you're asking these questions?
 

Guitarfreakelite

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............. ahem.. THERE YEARS AGO! i did not say in any part i was here 3 years.. i was hear ten .. (just joking) on and off.. cant really mesure..
 

xomel

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A few words from the bottom of my heart.

1. Learn to spell
2. Read DJB
3. Dont post until you learn more.
4. Read my post about applying what you learn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Evil-Rom

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You have the spelling ability of a 6 year old.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Responding the the quasi-English subject: No, never.
 
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