"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should A Daun Tolorate Dissrispect?

Guitarfreakelite

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when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
Dude you sure as hell are missing the point.

If a chick rejects you in any wya shape or form you simply say,
"Well it was nice talking to you, Have a great life"

Your a man, not a wimp who cares what other people think about you.
 

Wonderbread166

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You've been here for three years and you're asking these questions?
 

Guitarfreakelite

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............. ahem.. THERE YEARS AGO! i did not say in any part i was here 3 years.. i was hear ten .. (just joking) on and off.. cant really mesure..
 

xomel

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A few words from the bottom of my heart.

1. Learn to spell
2. Read DJB
3. Dont post until you learn more.
4. Read my post about applying what you learn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Evil-Rom

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You have the spelling ability of a 6 year old.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Responding the the quasi-English subject: No, never.
 
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