"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should A Daun Tolorate Dissrispect?

Guitarfreakelite

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when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
when a girl rejects you thats one thing..
but what about when she just blows your spot up?
ex: "ew, hell no!, over my dead body"
and people are around, should u take that?
if walk away, u look like a punk
your rep gets bad, you get labled desprate
but you cant fight her, then u become a punk
is it daun like to swear her out ?
any combacks to these rejection lines?
Dude you sure as hell are missing the point.

If a chick rejects you in any wya shape or form you simply say,
"Well it was nice talking to you, Have a great life"

Your a man, not a wimp who cares what other people think about you.
 

Wonderbread166

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You've been here for three years and you're asking these questions?
 

Guitarfreakelite

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............. ahem.. THERE YEARS AGO! i did not say in any part i was here 3 years.. i was hear ten .. (just joking) on and off.. cant really mesure..
 

xomel

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A few words from the bottom of my heart.

1. Learn to spell
2. Read DJB
3. Dont post until you learn more.
4. Read my post about applying what you learn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Evil-Rom

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You have the spelling ability of a 6 year old.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Responding the the quasi-English subject: No, never.
 
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