"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shoes with Brown Plaid Blazer

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http://www.bananarepublic.com/browse/product.do?cid=26223&pid=448485

I just purchased this blazer and have jeans that look like the one the model is wearing. However, what shoes would look good with it? Is wearing black shoes terrible? I heard if you wear brown blazer, your shoes should always be brown?

Well heres the thing. The model you see on the first link i have is wearing a blazer and wearing dark blue jeans... sort of indigo color. Is it fine to wear brown shoes with indigo jeans because it looks like the model is wearing that. Is brown blazer with blue jeans and brown shoes good?

Also, these are some shoes i see on ebay and would like some input

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dl...Track=true&ssPageName=VIP:watchlink:middle:us

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dl...Track=true&ssPageName=VIP:watchlink:middle:us

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dl...Track=true&ssPageName=VIP:watchlink:middle:us


I personally like the 2nd one. Is it fine wearing the 2nd one with indigo jeans?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you should just make 'The Official Warrior1 Fashion Thread'
 

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What color is your shirt and belt?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten said:
dont wear that blazer with blue jeans
Seconded. The jacket's not horrible, but brown and plaid do not generally a wet pussy make. Right Penkitten?
 

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i just meant that the dark brown plaid blazer needs brown pants not blue jeans.
but if you wanted to know if i thought that blazer was hot, my opinion is no. but that is just me.
 

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Right, my initial comment referred to not wearing a brown blazer with blue jeans also. Sorry if I was unclear.

My fashion advice is to go buy a cool black leather jacket and see if that doesn't immediately double your attractiveness with most women.
 

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what color jeans is that model wearing in the blazer? It looks like real dark blue or black doesn't it? It looks decent I would say.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, you could get away with it, especially with that second pair of shoes. Dont wear a polo under the blazer though because it looks rec0ckulous.
 

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How is it i could get way with it. I think it looks good. Does everyone here feel that brown pants is just way better than jeans?
 

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I just meant it works. Jeans will give you that casual look. I would't wear brown dress pants with that blazer in fear of looking like a used car salesman. But, with jeans and a button down and the brown oxford shoes it would look pretty classy.
 

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Well I am not really a fan of khakis because i like wearing jeans. By the way, the blazer is not really THAT brown. It is like a lighter brown if you get what i mean. Are there a lot of different color brown oxford shoes like some light and some darker brown?... because the 2nd link i showed on the shoe links look way browner than my blazer.

Would that be bad if the brown shoe looks a lot browner than my blazer which isn't as brown as the shoe?

Thanks for the help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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warrior1 said:
How is it i could get way with it. I think it looks good. Does everyone here feel that brown pants is just way better than jeans?
Nah. The jacket is unstructured and is designed to be worn casually. Brown and dark blue are beautiful together. I hope it fits you better than it fits the model, though.

Those shoes are ugly. Don't spend $66 on what amounts to cobbled plastic (=Kenneth Cole).
 

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well i ordered it the Kenneth Cole Shoes but i will return it back if i don't liek it. I am assuming you would suggest AE shoes right? But arent those Kenneth Cole shoes around 180 dollars retail? That isn't really cheap according to me.

I see those AE shoes that cost around 300 or so and thats definitely a lot. Would you say its terrible to have Kenneth Cole shoes? I know people hate it because it doesnt last long.
 

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Ehh...I had a pair of Kenneth Cole's last a couple of years, take care of them and they should hold up.
 

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thanks. I don't plan on wearing them much. I plan to just wear it with this blazer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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