"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shoes, I love my shoes but, they may be not "acceptable"

Are these shoes acceptable?

  • No, You'll have to wear something peacockish to be acceptable.

    Votes: 5 45.5%
  • Yes, Do what you want.

    Votes: 6 54.5%

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    11

Poonani Maker

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Well, I'm wearing the shoes posted above tonight, already made up my mind. No other shoes feel as comfortable to me. Comfort = confidence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think youre missing the point...comfort means comfortable with yourself not like...how your feet feel
 

PRMoon

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It's funny, I only buy adidas for tennis shoes. With the excpetion of my one pair of white sketchers (my predominat casual shoe, with the exception of one pair Lugz) All of my shoes are adidas.

I guess I'm a label wh*re:(

F*ck it I look good in those shoes:p

I run the town clown,
I got it locked down!
 
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