"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shoes, I love my shoes but, they may be not "acceptable"

Are these shoes acceptable?

  • No, You'll have to wear something peacockish to be acceptable.

    Votes: 5 45.5%
  • Yes, Do what you want.

    Votes: 6 54.5%

  • Total voters
    11

Poonani Maker

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Well, I'm wearing the shoes posted above tonight, already made up my mind. No other shoes feel as comfortable to me. Comfort = confidence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i think youre missing the point...comfort means comfortable with yourself not like...how your feet feel
 

PRMoon

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It's funny, I only buy adidas for tennis shoes. With the excpetion of my one pair of white sketchers (my predominat casual shoe, with the exception of one pair Lugz) All of my shoes are adidas.

I guess I'm a label wh*re:(

F*ck it I look good in those shoes:p

I run the town clown,
I got it locked down!
 
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