"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shoes, I love my shoes but, they may be not "acceptable"

Are these shoes acceptable?

  • No, You'll have to wear something peacockish to be acceptable.

    Votes: 5 45.5%
  • Yes, Do what you want.

    Votes: 6 54.5%

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Poonani Maker

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Tell me, are these shoes acceptable as long as they're Really clean? http://cgi.ebay.com/New-Balance-806...ameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem#ebayphotohosting

They don't make them anymore, so I buy them off of ebay. They're the best shoes I've Ever owned as far as comfort and performance (running/sports). Why can't I wear these out? I just don't feel balanced in my brown shoes, and when I don't feel balanced I don't feel secure or strong or quick on my feet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude are you freckin joking me ????

Buddy this is unacceptable.You will look like a fruit regardless of who you are by wearing these shoes.They are shoes for running and they should stay as shoes for running

Its like wearing basketball shoes while sarging,I mean you could,but its ridiculous.

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/6386/73920541vq4.jpg

Get one of those bad boys.I have a pair very similar to these ones and they are magnificent when going out.

Infact bro I wouldnt even reccomend this in day game.Honestly its just plainly retarded man.Get some Pumas and you will be set
 

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619joe said:
Dude are you freckin joking me ????

Buddy this is unacceptable.You will look like a fruit regardless of who you are by wearing these shoes.They are shoes for running and they should stay as shoes for running

Its like wearing basketball shoes while sarging,I mean you could,but its ridiculous.

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/6386/73920541vq4.jpg

Get one of those bad boys.I have a pair very similar to these ones and they are magnificent when going out.

Infact bro I wouldnt even reccomend this in day game.Honestly its just plainly retarded man.Get some Pumas and you will be set
Well, you won't give me a brand name so I can't try them out?? I think I'd look funnier in those ones you linked to to be honest. I can run a 4-4-4o in the ones I posted :p
 

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Trust me man I would stick with those for clubs/bars.Do you need shoes to run while in the club?No you dont man.

If your talkin about day game,then dude you still DONT need running shoes while talking to girls cause you arent gonna run off while gaming them.

Chicks dig Pumas,Nike Shox,Lacoste's,Adidas,etc that look sporty but still stylish man.I say pack up those shoes
 

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get some dress shoes man! comfort/performance?? dude, when you're in a club you're not running laps, you want to look good.

get some white dress shoes
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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These are the shoes I wear the most, even though I have a lot of shoes:

http://www.instepdrmartens.com/data/CM956BDF981047000012-110

http://cgi.ebay.com/DR-DOC-MARTENS-...7980705QQihZ003QQcategoryZ63850QQcmdZViewItem

http://www.boots99.com/drmarten.htm

They don't have to be the Doc Marten brand, dm is worth the money but fairly expensive. Other brand names make very similar shoes. But women love these, all my GFs have like them the best.

Also, for guys worried about height, they will make you a little taller, more so than other shoes.
 

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I always wear what I feel like myself and ignore everyone else. It depends how much you're interested in pleasing others vs. pleasing yourself. Anyway, I've found that when I'm really focused on pleasing myself over all others, people like me better. It's just that I show I'm strong-willed, or something.
 

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619joe said:
Dude are you freckin joking me ????

Buddy this is unacceptable.You will look like a fruit regardless of who you are by wearing these shoes.They are shoes for running and they should stay as shoes for running

Its like wearing basketball shoes while sarging,I mean you could,but its ridiculous.

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/6386/73920541vq4.jpg

Get one of those bad boys.I have a pair very similar to these ones and they are magnificent when going out.

Infact bro I wouldnt even reccomend this in day game.Honestly its just plainly retarded man.Get some Pumas and you will be set
hey! bozo called and he wants his shoes back. wtf are you trying to do to these guys. if a hor looks down at my feet i place my hand under her chin and lift her head up so that she is looking in my eyes. i then say, "this is not acceptable behavior. i know you wanna get a glimpse of my pork sword, but now is not the time." i usually get a raised eyebrow or at worse a little giggle. 9 out of 10 times i boff them before the evening is over.
 

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619joe said:
Dude are you freckin joking me ????

Buddy this is unacceptable.You will look like a fruit regardless of who you are by wearing these shoes.They are shoes for running and they should stay as shoes for running

Its like wearing basketball shoes while sarging,I mean you could,but its ridiculous.

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/6386/73920541vq4.jpg

Get one of those bad boys.I have a pair very similar to these ones and they are magnificent when going out.

Infact bro I wouldnt even reccomend this in day game.Honestly its just plainly retarded man.Get some Pumas and you will be set
Word.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude, they are fine.
as long as they serve their purpose, nothing else matters.
 

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OMG guyth, are my shoes fierce or what?

No offense bro, but worrying if other people will accept you for your shoes is not just mildly gay, it's pretty darn ludicrous.

The real question here is are they acceptable for YOU, and do you accept YOURSELF?
 

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Señor Fingers said:
No offense bro, but worrying if other people will accept you for your shoes is not just mildly gay, it's pretty darn ludicrous.

The real question here is are they acceptable for YOU, and do you accept YOURSELF?
that is what i was trying to say. worrying about the "in" shoes to have is totally sixth grade.
 

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619joe said:
Dude are you freckin joking me ????

Buddy this is unacceptable.You will look like a fruit regardless of who you are by wearing these shoes.They are shoes for running and they should stay as shoes for running

Its like wearing basketball shoes while sarging,I mean you could,but its ridiculous.

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/6386/73920541vq4.jpg

Get one of those bad boys.I have a pair very similar to these ones and they are magnificent when going out.

Infact bro I wouldnt even reccomend this in day game.Honestly its just plainly retarded man.Get some Pumas and you will be set
You're the only fruit here.

Poonani Maker- those shoes look fine, just wear them anywhere casual dress is acceptable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ewwwww No! Those shoes are hideous! I can see you wearing them in the mountains for running, but for the purposes of gaining attraction from women, those shoes are the pits. Sure you can wear them for the sake of comfort but no one will notice you in those at all.

I don't have that many shoes (something like 15 pairs total, sport, casual and dress) but they're all top of the line. Those would be my work shoes if I was working for water control in the pool and rec department of my property.
 

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Thanks. I read so much about shoes being the tell-tale item that activates the woman's accept/reject mechanism inside her brain. I cleaned these shoes with fervor. I'm totally accepting of myself in looks and who I am, what I've done. Just want to get this nagging shoe problem taken care of. I do have Guys look down at my feet too as if I'm not cool. Maybe I should use the pork sword line on them?
 
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i think there is a difference in "being free and wearing whatever makes you happy" and having zero fashion sense. if you want to wear those shoes when your hitting the grocery store then why not. but the point remains....those are pretty ugly shoes dude. trust me on this one, girls take notice of a guys shoes.
 

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Buy some solid one color shoes. Seven of my eight trainers are all white with color trim. The other pair is all black with white trim. Still I get comments on my shoes from people all the time. Nice shoes create confidance in you as well. You step a little bit more proudly if you have good looking shoes as opposed to regular shoes that you don't notice. It's like driving a car you really like, you do it with pride instead of having a grinder. The same should be true of your clothes. Having things you can be proud of improves your overall disposition.
 

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One pair of athletic shoes worn everywhere is how young boys dress, similar to the infamous tighty-whitey underwear, you have to grow up someday.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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