"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well this is a really long story but ill try and keep it short...

Yesterday I got this girls number I kept making eye contact at lunc shes a fairly hot sophmore so I figured what the hell try and be spontanious and cool so I asked she gave it to me.... So after my next class I was headin to my car and saw a friend started talkin to him the girl runs up and hugs me and tells me to call her I was like ok weird but why not give it a try ... lastnight when i was at work I called her shes like wow didnt think you would call she had to go though..

So today she runs up and hugs me again ... once again next passing period same thing but she kisses me ALOT and wont let me go then at my lunch SAME THING aghh I mean she is pretty but this worries me ive never had a girl do this... Is she just fvcked up or a slut... i dont want any STDs and its almost just freakin me out... what is she thinking? should i just end it becuase she seems weird.... well i hope she doesnt think im her boyfriend now arghh..what do i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I label this chick as:
a) One that easily falls in "love".
b) Head over heels in "love" with you.

I don't know, she wouldn't turn me on.
 
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If she's hot, hit it & quit it.

If she isn't, do the LJBF thing.
 
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She's an AFC.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh man I am serious she is a total psycho. At lunch she kept trying to hug me and flipped out when I ignored her becuase we arent going out and she went outside looking really mad. Then one my female friends basicly told her to **** off.... Well then tonight this girl goes telling me "oh your going out with my friend" I said no and she told me the girl said she wanted to throw stuff at my car becuase Im not "acting like a boyfriend" and that I probably wont be for much longer. Well great she is psycho anyway and I never asked her out or said we where going out in the first place . She gives me the creeps :(
 
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Let her know you arn't going out and yes, she's an AFC.
 
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