"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any woman at my house after 10pm us getting the divk lol no analysis needed
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jaylan

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foreverace87 said:
Jaylan, I may have miscommunicated. She wasn't asking about her relationship (not even sure if she has one), she was asking herself if she should sleep with me before we did it. I was persistent, didn't give in, and I think she appreciated that.
Meh

Too much drama for me. I dont mess around with taken women to begin with...but what a turn off it would be for a girl to openly question whether her and I should hook up. Especially if she has a boyfriend.

I already know this girl will be drama galore if she needs to vocalize herself in that way about her behavior. Just bang her already like you want. And tbh I envision guess youll catch feelings for her afterwards.

Like I said in my first post, shes low quality.
 

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hit it bro...just wrap it up and keep your guards up.
 

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UPDATE

I am glad you guys told me to keep my guard up. We fvked for 7 to 8 days and she said that this was a total change because sexx sucked in her previous relationship. Then, this evening her LDR bf kept blasting her phone with phone calls non stop, almost 15 calls within 5 minutes and sending her crazy desperate messages about how she may be cheating on him, she just leaped off my couch and ran for the door and left. She acted like she saw a ghost. Then when she got home, she sent me a text saying "nice meeting you". I didn't respond.
 

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Don't be weird dude you know the situation. Just enjoy her. You fcked her haha nice! Just treat her as a plate she has a weird thing going with the other guy. Don't show emotion over that just enjoy doing her. If you want tell her with zero outcome attachment to just end it. Say if he thinks you're cheating he probably is
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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personally I'd recommend having higher moral standards than intentionally and knowingly bedding girls with BFs

in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful
 

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devilkingx2 said:
personally I'd recommend having higher moral standards than intentionally and knowingly bedding girls with BFs

in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to devilkingx2 again.
 

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I guess this time, you were the plate. Two things: move on, fast; don't ever hook up with her again, not even for a casual.
 

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Wait for her to text you, maybe in a few days send her a text to casually let her know your door is still open. Then just wait for her to come to you, either she will or she wont.

I wouldnt ever bring the subject up with her, your either just a sex toy or a tool to use against her BF, and youre either okay with this or not. Just be ready anytime she calls you up late at night with an itch to scratch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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foreverace87

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I didn't have to wait for her to text me in a few days, as a matter of fact she texted right when she got home.

Her: Nice meeting you
Her: So do i get ignored too
Her: Alright. Well bye see you around

I called her an hour later and told her her that the way she left my place was disrespectful and I didn't tolerate it. She went to explain that I did the same to her by walking away from her. She also mentioned that she doesn't know how to get rid of her bf who is always up her ass. She has told him several times that its not going to work but he keeps at it. They haven't had sexx in forever but she still wants to "utilize" him for help (woman are unbelievable). She also told me she always has to wear the pants in a relationship and always has to be the dominant one ( I could tell by the aggression in her voice, never saw that side of her before). She has a history of being physically abused by her first ex as well.

That's way too much baggage even for casual sexx. I have seen some unstable chicks,but this one is wayy tooo unstable for me.
 

No.Danny

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Good. You're finally thinking with the right head again. This chick is no bueno.
 

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Well at least you didn't allow yourself to get caught up in that mess. Good job man you did good.
 
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