"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any woman at my house after 10pm us getting the divk lol no analysis needed
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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foreverace87 said:
Jaylan, I may have miscommunicated. She wasn't asking about her relationship (not even sure if she has one), she was asking herself if she should sleep with me before we did it. I was persistent, didn't give in, and I think she appreciated that.
Meh

Too much drama for me. I dont mess around with taken women to begin with...but what a turn off it would be for a girl to openly question whether her and I should hook up. Especially if she has a boyfriend.

I already know this girl will be drama galore if she needs to vocalize herself in that way about her behavior. Just bang her already like you want. And tbh I envision guess youll catch feelings for her afterwards.

Like I said in my first post, shes low quality.
 

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hit it bro...just wrap it up and keep your guards up.
 

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UPDATE

I am glad you guys told me to keep my guard up. We fvked for 7 to 8 days and she said that this was a total change because sexx sucked in her previous relationship. Then, this evening her LDR bf kept blasting her phone with phone calls non stop, almost 15 calls within 5 minutes and sending her crazy desperate messages about how she may be cheating on him, she just leaped off my couch and ran for the door and left. She acted like she saw a ghost. Then when she got home, she sent me a text saying "nice meeting you". I didn't respond.
 

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Don't be weird dude you know the situation. Just enjoy her. You fcked her haha nice! Just treat her as a plate she has a weird thing going with the other guy. Don't show emotion over that just enjoy doing her. If you want tell her with zero outcome attachment to just end it. Say if he thinks you're cheating he probably is
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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personally I'd recommend having higher moral standards than intentionally and knowingly bedding girls with BFs

in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful
 

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devilkingx2 said:
personally I'd recommend having higher moral standards than intentionally and knowingly bedding girls with BFs

in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to devilkingx2 again.
 

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I guess this time, you were the plate. Two things: move on, fast; don't ever hook up with her again, not even for a casual.
 

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Wait for her to text you, maybe in a few days send her a text to casually let her know your door is still open. Then just wait for her to come to you, either she will or she wont.

I wouldnt ever bring the subject up with her, your either just a sex toy or a tool to use against her BF, and youre either okay with this or not. Just be ready anytime she calls you up late at night with an itch to scratch.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't have to wait for her to text me in a few days, as a matter of fact she texted right when she got home.

Her: Nice meeting you
Her: So do i get ignored too
Her: Alright. Well bye see you around

I called her an hour later and told her her that the way she left my place was disrespectful and I didn't tolerate it. She went to explain that I did the same to her by walking away from her. She also mentioned that she doesn't know how to get rid of her bf who is always up her ass. She has told him several times that its not going to work but he keeps at it. They haven't had sexx in forever but she still wants to "utilize" him for help (woman are unbelievable). She also told me she always has to wear the pants in a relationship and always has to be the dominant one ( I could tell by the aggression in her voice, never saw that side of her before). She has a history of being physically abused by her first ex as well.

That's way too much baggage even for casual sexx. I have seen some unstable chicks,but this one is wayy tooo unstable for me.
 

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Good. You're finally thinking with the right head again. This chick is no bueno.
 

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Well at least you didn't allow yourself to get caught up in that mess. Good job man you did good.
 
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