backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Any woman at my house after 10pm us getting the divk lol no analysis needed
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SHOCKED by HB8
- Thread starter foreverace87
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mehforeverace87 said:
Too much drama for me. I dont mess around with taken women to begin with...but what a turn off it would be for a girl to openly question whether her and I should hook up. Especially if she has a boyfriend.
I already know this girl will be drama galore if she needs to vocalize herself in that way about her behavior. Just bang her already like you want. And tbh I envision guess youll catch feelings for her afterwards.
Like I said in my first post, shes low quality.
foreverace87
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 25, 2013
- Messages
- 77
- Reaction score
- 6
UPDATE
I am glad you guys told me to keep my guard up. We fvked for 7 to 8 days and she said that this was a total change because sexx sucked in her previous relationship. Then, this evening her LDR bf kept blasting her phone with phone calls non stop, almost 15 calls within 5 minutes and sending her crazy desperate messages about how she may be cheating on him, she just leaped off my couch and ran for the door and left. She acted like she saw a ghost. Then when she got home, she sent me a text saying "nice meeting you". I didn't respond.
I am glad you guys told me to keep my guard up. We fvked for 7 to 8 days and she said that this was a total change because sexx sucked in her previous relationship. Then, this evening her LDR bf kept blasting her phone with phone calls non stop, almost 15 calls within 5 minutes and sending her crazy desperate messages about how she may be cheating on him, she just leaped off my couch and ran for the door and left. She acted like she saw a ghost. Then when she got home, she sent me a text saying "nice meeting you". I didn't respond.
Don't be weird dude you know the situation. Just enjoy her. You fcked her haha nice! Just treat her as a plate she has a weird thing going with the other guy. Don't show emotion over that just enjoy doing her. If you want tell her with zero outcome attachment to just end it. Say if he thinks you're cheating he probably is
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
personally I'd recommend having higher moral standards than intentionally and knowingly bedding girls with BFs
in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful
in addition to the fact that you should strive to be a better person than someone from the springer show or maury, there's also unnecessary drama and the illogic of dating a girl who you KNOW is unfaithful
GotED?
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 6, 2012
- Messages
- 819
- Reaction score
- 99
devilkingx2 said:
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to devilkingx2 again.
Tictac
Banned
Nor response is the right response.
Let her figure herself out.
Let her figure herself out.
Special EDy
Don Juan
Wait for her to text you, maybe in a few days send her a text to casually let her know your door is still open. Then just wait for her to come to you, either she will or she wont.
I wouldnt ever bring the subject up with her, your either just a sex toy or a tool to use against her BF, and youre either okay with this or not. Just be ready anytime she calls you up late at night with an itch to scratch.
I wouldnt ever bring the subject up with her, your either just a sex toy or a tool to use against her BF, and youre either okay with this or not. Just be ready anytime she calls you up late at night with an itch to scratch.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
foreverace87
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 25, 2013
- Messages
- 77
- Reaction score
- 6
I didn't have to wait for her to text me in a few days, as a matter of fact she texted right when she got home.
Her: Nice meeting you
Her: So do i get ignored too
Her: Alright. Well bye see you around
I called her an hour later and told her her that the way she left my place was disrespectful and I didn't tolerate it. She went to explain that I did the same to her by walking away from her. She also mentioned that she doesn't know how to get rid of her bf who is always up her ass. She has told him several times that its not going to work but he keeps at it. They haven't had sexx in forever but she still wants to "utilize" him for help (woman are unbelievable). She also told me she always has to wear the pants in a relationship and always has to be the dominant one ( I could tell by the aggression in her voice, never saw that side of her before). She has a history of being physically abused by her first ex as well.
That's way too much baggage even for casual sexx. I have seen some unstable chicks,but this one is wayy tooo unstable for me.
Her: Nice meeting you
Her: So do i get ignored too
Her: Alright. Well bye see you around
I called her an hour later and told her her that the way she left my place was disrespectful and I didn't tolerate it. She went to explain that I did the same to her by walking away from her. She also mentioned that she doesn't know how to get rid of her bf who is always up her ass. She has told him several times that its not going to work but he keeps at it. They haven't had sexx in forever but she still wants to "utilize" him for help (woman are unbelievable). She also told me she always has to wear the pants in a relationship and always has to be the dominant one ( I could tell by the aggression in her voice, never saw that side of her before). She has a history of being physically abused by her first ex as well.
That's way too much baggage even for casual sexx. I have seen some unstable chicks,but this one is wayy tooo unstable for me.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Good. You're finally thinking with the right head again. This chick is no bueno.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Well at least you didn't allow yourself to get caught up in that mess. Good job man you did good.