Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yikes dude. It's all about subtext. Being blatant about it is not the way to go. You can say you dislike fat people, but I would've gone with the, "I take eating healthy and working out very seriously angle". It makes her qualify to your standards and you don't sound like a ****
Either she used to be fat and is still sensitive about it, whether you knew or not
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I've been in similar situations. The way I handled them was by saying "I'm into fit, lean and healthy girls." When accused of being superficial, I agree and amplify with "Absolutely. We are ALL superficial when we first see a person to determine whether we find him/her attractive. And the rest of people who say they aren't concerned about looks but more about "personality" are usually stretching the truth.
women are so emotional about stuff sometimes. Men are superficial cause we like youth and great bodies?.... thanks feminism for labeling us superficial when we don't want to date women that can't control their food intake or workouts. A lot of women in there 20's are in the gym all the time to look sexy to lockdown a quality man and yet you have heavier women saying, well you should give us a chance too. Blah blah blah
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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not yet, it hasn't been long enough, give it around a week (6-8 days) then hit her up without mentioning this incident and refuse to speak of it (change the subject if it comes up)
Meh, I wrote to her already. She answered back.
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her being that vague, assuming those are exact words, is a bad sign. I hope this works out for you, but you did the exact wrong thing (not mentioning the incident was faaaaaar more important than whatever day you chose to text her, the waiting was merely to give her time to cool down, but reminding her about it was beyond foolish because if she had forgotten she now remembers and might get madder than she was before you asked)Meh, I wrote to her already. She answered back.
Told her "Hey, you still mad at me?
She said "Yeah"
I was like "Anything I can do to change that?"
She went "I don't really know it right now"
I went "Would you like to go out when I come back in Shkoder or when you come to Tirana?"
She said "I have an exam soon and then I will have a little more free time.."
And you're right. But I don't mind much. She lost my attention when she got upset over shyt like this, I just gave it a second try as a last try, almost no emotional investing at all in this second time.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
