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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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she's @ the bar I went to

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So i have been hooking up with this chick for a while, and I went to a bar to meet up with some old friends. Well, when I ordered a drink at the bar, I noticed she was right next to me with another guy, we talked and bs while I was waiting for my drink, but I could tell she was embarrassed (after i got my drink I went back to my friends and ignored her). So what do you think, I have been letting her chase me, should i just say "fck her" and drop her completely or what?

I really didn't care, and i'm curious your guys experiences in situations like this, what did you guys do, or what would you guys do?

Thanks :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you are single...

she is single...

i'm sure you are fukkin other chicks so why do you care who she is fukkin?
 

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I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
 

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Good thing you weren't under the agreement or impression that she was being exclusive :D . I'm just sayin'.
 

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Sekond said:
I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.

hahaha, J roc, I so hope you will give me advice in the future, cuz you really say it how it is, and it makes sense, respects man.
 

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.

I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
 

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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
yeah, we all prefer them being exclusive to us, but most likely it wont happen (unless she is in REALLY into you) best just to play it and have fun, if they do other things, then they do, who cares, it doesn't bother your life
 

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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
we all want our women to be exclusive but the reality is it doesn't happen. if you are playing the field then you shouldnt care if she is playing the field either. she isnt your girl and can do whatever/whoever she wants...
 
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