"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she's @ the bar I went to

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So i have been hooking up with this chick for a while, and I went to a bar to meet up with some old friends. Well, when I ordered a drink at the bar, I noticed she was right next to me with another guy, we talked and bs while I was waiting for my drink, but I could tell she was embarrassed (after i got my drink I went back to my friends and ignored her). So what do you think, I have been letting her chase me, should i just say "fck her" and drop her completely or what?

I really didn't care, and i'm curious your guys experiences in situations like this, what did you guys do, or what would you guys do?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you are single...

she is single...

i'm sure you are fukkin other chicks so why do you care who she is fukkin?
 
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I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
 
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Good thing you weren't under the agreement or impression that she was being exclusive :D . I'm just sayin'.
 
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Sekond said:
I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
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well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
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hahaha, J roc, I so hope you will give me advice in the future, cuz you really say it how it is, and it makes sense, respects man.
 
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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
 
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
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yeah, we all prefer them being exclusive to us, but most likely it wont happen (unless she is in REALLY into you) best just to play it and have fun, if they do other things, then they do, who cares, it doesn't bother your life
 
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
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we all want our women to be exclusive but the reality is it doesn't happen. if you are playing the field then you shouldnt care if she is playing the field either. she isnt your girl and can do whatever/whoever she wants...
 
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