"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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she's @ the bar I went to

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So i have been hooking up with this chick for a while, and I went to a bar to meet up with some old friends. Well, when I ordered a drink at the bar, I noticed she was right next to me with another guy, we talked and bs while I was waiting for my drink, but I could tell she was embarrassed (after i got my drink I went back to my friends and ignored her). So what do you think, I have been letting her chase me, should i just say "fck her" and drop her completely or what?

I really didn't care, and i'm curious your guys experiences in situations like this, what did you guys do, or what would you guys do?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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you are single...

she is single...

i'm sure you are fukkin other chicks so why do you care who she is fukkin?
 
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I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
 
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Good thing you weren't under the agreement or impression that she was being exclusive :D . I'm just sayin'.
 
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Sekond said:
I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
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well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
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hahaha, J roc, I so hope you will give me advice in the future, cuz you really say it how it is, and it makes sense, respects man.
 
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well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
 
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
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yeah, we all prefer them being exclusive to us, but most likely it wont happen (unless she is in REALLY into you) best just to play it and have fun, if they do other things, then they do, who cares, it doesn't bother your life
 
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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
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we all want our women to be exclusive but the reality is it doesn't happen. if you are playing the field then you shouldnt care if she is playing the field either. she isnt your girl and can do whatever/whoever she wants...
 
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