“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she's @ the bar I went to

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So i have been hooking up with this chick for a while, and I went to a bar to meet up with some old friends. Well, when I ordered a drink at the bar, I noticed she was right next to me with another guy, we talked and bs while I was waiting for my drink, but I could tell she was embarrassed (after i got my drink I went back to my friends and ignored her). So what do you think, I have been letting her chase me, should i just say "fck her" and drop her completely or what?

I really didn't care, and i'm curious your guys experiences in situations like this, what did you guys do, or what would you guys do?

Thanks :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you are single...

she is single...

i'm sure you are fukkin other chicks so why do you care who she is fukkin?
 

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I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
 

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Good thing you weren't under the agreement or impression that she was being exclusive :D . I'm just sayin'.
 

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Sekond said:
I wasn't, If anything I was kind of laughing at that, moreso cuz she was embarrassed. It was one of those things that you wouldn't expect, you know? Not that often things like this occur

anyway, i'm just determining my limits on things
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.

hahaha, J roc, I so hope you will give me advice in the future, cuz you really say it how it is, and it makes sense, respects man.
 

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J Roc said:
well if you dont care who she is fukkin then why would you even consider droppin her just because she is out with some other guy? treat her like a friend with benefits/jumpoff and fukk her whenever you feel like it.

I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
 

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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
yeah, we all prefer them being exclusive to us, but most likely it wont happen (unless she is in REALLY into you) best just to play it and have fun, if they do other things, then they do, who cares, it doesn't bother your life
 

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I don't know, I don't mislead girls about them being a FB, but I still prefer them to be exclusive with me while I play the field :D .
we all want our women to be exclusive but the reality is it doesn't happen. if you are playing the field then you shouldnt care if she is playing the field either. she isnt your girl and can do whatever/whoever she wants...
 
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