Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She's on the market..but should i buy?

jeffthechef

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Of course..in most cases i would go do work
BUT

I found this site as i was an afc...and while i was chasing after this HB9.5

towards the end of my last school year i was still an afc...i started picking up ioi's from her during the last month of the school year..she began showing up in places where i hung out where she never was before...She even sat right next to me in the library, never comes, one time even though there were lots of chairs open...SHE WAS WITHIN A FOOT, CONSTANTLY LOOKING OVER AT ME, STRETCHING OUT HER ARMS AND REACHING OVER HER HEAD FLAUNTING HER CHEST,all i did was fidget like an afc only taking one glance and looking away quickly after making eye contact.....i felt like such a dumbass...that summer...i told my self...fuk it just do it...so i sent her this email..basically full of bull**** and eventually asking for her number..thing is she was going out with this guy....it's been about 3 months..so i sure as hell know she's checked it...and she's single again..This week she began showing up in the library again, a place she never goes...she sits close again...

NOW...i have the skills to do it..thing is
should i bring up the email..i mean it would be awkward if i didn't because it made it blatantly clear i was interested...

next time she's next to me i planned on going.
me: hey, hows it?
her: great i haven't talked to you in so long.
me: yeh, by the way, did you get my email?
This is where it splits into two different ways
1.
her: yes i did.
me: so how come you didn't reply?
i can take it from here
2.
her: no. maybe my email was full
me: well i was going to go (somewhere) and you should come. it should be fun.


well i think i must bring it up..or else it would simply be awkward
what do you think:crackup: :yawn: :cheer: :woo: :D :) ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WalkingStick

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You're not the same guy who sent her that email. You're a different person now and there's no need to bring it up. She will if she really wants to.

It will only be awkward if you make it that way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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