"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's on the market..but should i buy?

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jeffthechef

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Of course..in most cases i would go do work
BUT

I found this site as i was an afc...and while i was chasing after this HB9.5

towards the end of my last school year i was still an afc...i started picking up ioi's from her during the last month of the school year..she began showing up in places where i hung out where she never was before...She even sat right next to me in the library, never comes, one time even though there were lots of chairs open...SHE WAS WITHIN A FOOT, CONSTANTLY LOOKING OVER AT ME, STRETCHING OUT HER ARMS AND REACHING OVER HER HEAD FLAUNTING HER CHEST,all i did was fidget like an afc only taking one glance and looking away quickly after making eye contact.....i felt like such a dumbass...that summer...i told my self...fuk it just do it...so i sent her this email..basically full of bull**** and eventually asking for her number..thing is she was going out with this guy....it's been about 3 months..so i sure as hell know she's checked it...and she's single again..This week she began showing up in the library again, a place she never goes...she sits close again...

NOW...i have the skills to do it..thing is
should i bring up the email..i mean it would be awkward if i didn't because it made it blatantly clear i was interested...

next time she's next to me i planned on going.
me: hey, hows it?
her: great i haven't talked to you in so long.
me: yeh, by the way, did you get my email?
This is where it splits into two different ways
1.
her: yes i did.
me: so how come you didn't reply?
i can take it from here
2.
her: no. maybe my email was full
me: well i was going to go (somewhere) and you should come. it should be fun.


well i think i must bring it up..or else it would simply be awkward
what do you think:crackup: :yawn: :cheer: :woo: :D :) ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WalkingStick

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You're not the same guy who sent her that email. You're a different person now and there's no need to bring it up. She will if she really wants to.

It will only be awkward if you make it that way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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