"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's on the market..but should i buy?

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jeffthechef

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Of course..in most cases i would go do work
BUT

I found this site as i was an afc...and while i was chasing after this HB9.5

towards the end of my last school year i was still an afc...i started picking up ioi's from her during the last month of the school year..she began showing up in places where i hung out where she never was before...She even sat right next to me in the library, never comes, one time even though there were lots of chairs open...SHE WAS WITHIN A FOOT, CONSTANTLY LOOKING OVER AT ME, STRETCHING OUT HER ARMS AND REACHING OVER HER HEAD FLAUNTING HER CHEST,all i did was fidget like an afc only taking one glance and looking away quickly after making eye contact.....i felt like such a dumbass...that summer...i told my self...fuk it just do it...so i sent her this email..basically full of bull**** and eventually asking for her number..thing is she was going out with this guy....it's been about 3 months..so i sure as hell know she's checked it...and she's single again..This week she began showing up in the library again, a place she never goes...she sits close again...

NOW...i have the skills to do it..thing is
should i bring up the email..i mean it would be awkward if i didn't because it made it blatantly clear i was interested...

next time she's next to me i planned on going.
me: hey, hows it?
her: great i haven't talked to you in so long.
me: yeh, by the way, did you get my email?
This is where it splits into two different ways
1.
her: yes i did.
me: so how come you didn't reply?
i can take it from here
2.
her: no. maybe my email was full
me: well i was going to go (somewhere) and you should come. it should be fun.


well i think i must bring it up..or else it would simply be awkward
what do you think:crackup: :yawn: :cheer: :woo: :D :) ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WalkingStick

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You're not the same guy who sent her that email. You're a different person now and there's no need to bring it up. She will if she really wants to.

It will only be awkward if you make it that way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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