You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yes, if he does that, he definintely does not appear to be a player.Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
Yeah right... get in her pants, then next her.
Youre a dumbass, just because a girl thinks youre a player doesnt mean sh!t. A lot of girls i know think im a player cause of how i look and act i guess, but that doesnt mean a damn thing. I have two rubber bands that say player and respect. To mean it means nothing, but to girls its a little indicator i guess. I was chilling with this girl and she say them and say some stupid thing. But did that matter?? No!! Later we were outside making out, talking about how many people that we've had sex with. So...in conclusion, dont listen to this guy and play the field, she come around.Originally posted by 08aisaac
Ah you are also from Ky. I would just denie all accusations and NEXT her.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Excuses...Originally posted by 08aisaac
I haven't been outside of my house n like a week. Mom is always at work and can't drive me anywhere because I am always asleep. All of this isolation is messing with my good judgement. Maybe I'll go to a library.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It really doesnt...unless you suck...youd be suprisedOriginally posted by Jerky Boi
You wouldn't want a girl to label you as a player. I mean yea, it doesn't really matter, but if you're wanting to hook up with her, it kinda does.
Originally posted by MVP?¥?JI€GALO
any idea on whats goin on? cus i just told her im not a player n that i just ant like other guys she meet in tha past.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.