"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shes looking at my p*n*s?

J-Man

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last night i had this girl come over to study a psychology test. a bunch of flirting and kino later, we decided to watch fight club (my favorite movie) together after we were done. when that time finally came, she said she would go to her dorm (down the hall) for a while and come back later... she never came.

doesnt happen often but it still happens once in a while... whatever...

she just came by and told me there was a study group in the library tonight, and insisted i come (me: "i dont know, i hate libraries..."). i pretended like nothing happend last night and couldnt give a **** (well i guess i wasnt pretending... whatever).

heres the weird thing: as i said bye, she looked RIGHT at my crotch area... just a little too long...

normally i would take this as an obvious IOI, but after last night? im thinking maybe shes just a dumb freshman girl whos playing games/cant make up her mind/is scared or something stupid like that...

shes not a virgin though, shes got enough experience so i wonder.

any thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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foomee

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hmm.. how'd she say she's going back to her room? maybe she was hinting you to follow her? ;)

but yeah, go to the study group, then later that night do something else. maybe another movie? try to flirt with her at the study thing. a little footsie under the table, etc.
 

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The question is "What do you want??"

If you are the passenger in this scene all you going to have is some questions with no answers.

If you are the driver, you take control of the situation and instead of inviting her for a movie as "a friend" or going to stupid study group, put the moves on her and come onto her. If she rebuffes your advances then NEXT her. If you don't want her then you shouldn't care where and why she looked at you.

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.
Not bad advise unless you want to get arrested.

In all seriosness, a chick staring at your c0ck is a major buying signal, unless your fly is open.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wavejams007

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.

lol. So the next time you can't figure out the solution and your male boss is crawling up your a$$, you gonna whi it out on him?
 

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I once had a roomful of women stare at my crotch area!

But when I zipped up, they all stopped staring.
 
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