"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shes looking at my p*n*s?

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J-Man

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last night i had this girl come over to study a psychology test. a bunch of flirting and kino later, we decided to watch fight club (my favorite movie) together after we were done. when that time finally came, she said she would go to her dorm (down the hall) for a while and come back later... she never came.

doesnt happen often but it still happens once in a while... whatever...

she just came by and told me there was a study group in the library tonight, and insisted i come (me: "i dont know, i hate libraries..."). i pretended like nothing happend last night and couldnt give a **** (well i guess i wasnt pretending... whatever).

heres the weird thing: as i said bye, she looked RIGHT at my crotch area... just a little too long...

normally i would take this as an obvious IOI, but after last night? im thinking maybe shes just a dumb freshman girl whos playing games/cant make up her mind/is scared or something stupid like that...

shes not a virgin though, shes got enough experience so i wonder.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmm.. how'd she say she's going back to her room? maybe she was hinting you to follow her? ;)

but yeah, go to the study group, then later that night do something else. maybe another movie? try to flirt with her at the study thing. a little footsie under the table, etc.
 
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The question is "What do you want??"

If you are the passenger in this scene all you going to have is some questions with no answers.

If you are the driver, you take control of the situation and instead of inviting her for a movie as "a friend" or going to stupid study group, put the moves on her and come onto her. If she rebuffes your advances then NEXT her. If you don't want her then you shouldn't care where and why she looked at you.

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.
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Not bad advise unless you want to get arrested.

In all seriosness, a chick staring at your c0ck is a major buying signal, unless your fly is open.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.
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lol. So the next time you can't figure out the solution and your male boss is crawling up your a$$, you gonna whi it out on him?
 
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I once had a roomful of women stare at my crotch area!

But when I zipped up, they all stopped staring.
 
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