"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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shes looking at my p*n*s?

J-Man

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last night i had this girl come over to study a psychology test. a bunch of flirting and kino later, we decided to watch fight club (my favorite movie) together after we were done. when that time finally came, she said she would go to her dorm (down the hall) for a while and come back later... she never came.

doesnt happen often but it still happens once in a while... whatever...

she just came by and told me there was a study group in the library tonight, and insisted i come (me: "i dont know, i hate libraries..."). i pretended like nothing happend last night and couldnt give a **** (well i guess i wasnt pretending... whatever).

heres the weird thing: as i said bye, she looked RIGHT at my crotch area... just a little too long...

normally i would take this as an obvious IOI, but after last night? im thinking maybe shes just a dumb freshman girl whos playing games/cant make up her mind/is scared or something stupid like that...

shes not a virgin though, shes got enough experience so i wonder.

any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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foomee

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hmm.. how'd she say she's going back to her room? maybe she was hinting you to follow her? ;)

but yeah, go to the study group, then later that night do something else. maybe another movie? try to flirt with her at the study thing. a little footsie under the table, etc.
 

DJDamage

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The question is "What do you want??"

If you are the passenger in this scene all you going to have is some questions with no answers.

If you are the driver, you take control of the situation and instead of inviting her for a movie as "a friend" or going to stupid study group, put the moves on her and come onto her. If she rebuffes your advances then NEXT her. If you don't want her then you shouldn't care where and why she looked at you.

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sapphire

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.
Not bad advise unless you want to get arrested.

In all seriosness, a chick staring at your c0ck is a major buying signal, unless your fly is open.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wavejams007

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
When in doubt, whip it out.

lol. So the next time you can't figure out the solution and your male boss is crawling up your a$$, you gonna whi it out on him?
 

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I once had a roomful of women stare at my crotch area!

But when I zipped up, they all stopped staring.
 
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