"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's coming with a friend to our "blind" date, good or bad?

DJDamage

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I am calling B.S on the bringing a friend for safety, its a sign of low interest in my book.

You being on the internet were not able to establish real attraction and therefore she has reservations about you. In the real world chicks go to a club, get wasted and then hook up with a guy they just met 15 mins ago and end up going to their place for ONS. All of the sudden the fears of psycho ex murder/rapist flies out the window - WHY IS THAT? because when a woman is highly attracted to a man she will often take big risks to achieve her own happiness (she is hostage to her own emotions). You meeting her in a public place is not considered a big risk and therefore its B.S.

Now instead of focusing your attention on one chick you now have to do on two at the same time! if she likes you and her friend doesn't, you better believe that her friend will try to c0ckblock and sabotage the date. Those two already had a pre-arrange conversation saying that one of them will rescue the other if they find you to be a creep or boring.

SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJDamage said:
SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
This should be a "Man Law." :up:

Maybe even add it to the list of DJ commandments.
 

backbreaker

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yeah, nothing screams "I don't think of you sexually" like I'm bringing a buddy.

your GF doesn't need a Buddy over the house when she wants to blow you does she?
 
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