"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's coming with a friend to our "blind" date, good or bad?

DJDamage

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I am calling B.S on the bringing a friend for safety, its a sign of low interest in my book.

You being on the internet were not able to establish real attraction and therefore she has reservations about you. In the real world chicks go to a club, get wasted and then hook up with a guy they just met 15 mins ago and end up going to their place for ONS. All of the sudden the fears of psycho ex murder/rapist flies out the window - WHY IS THAT? because when a woman is highly attracted to a man she will often take big risks to achieve her own happiness (she is hostage to her own emotions). You meeting her in a public place is not considered a big risk and therefore its B.S.

Now instead of focusing your attention on one chick you now have to do on two at the same time! if she likes you and her friend doesn't, you better believe that her friend will try to c0ckblock and sabotage the date. Those two already had a pre-arrange conversation saying that one of them will rescue the other if they find you to be a creep or boring.

SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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DJDamage said:
SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
This should be a "Man Law." :up:

Maybe even add it to the list of DJ commandments.
 

backbreaker

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yeah, nothing screams "I don't think of you sexually" like I'm bringing a buddy.

your GF doesn't need a Buddy over the house when she wants to blow you does she?
 
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