"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's coming with a friend to our "blind" date, good or bad?

DJDamage

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I am calling B.S on the bringing a friend for safety, its a sign of low interest in my book.

You being on the internet were not able to establish real attraction and therefore she has reservations about you. In the real world chicks go to a club, get wasted and then hook up with a guy they just met 15 mins ago and end up going to their place for ONS. All of the sudden the fears of psycho ex murder/rapist flies out the window - WHY IS THAT? because when a woman is highly attracted to a man she will often take big risks to achieve her own happiness (she is hostage to her own emotions). You meeting her in a public place is not considered a big risk and therefore its B.S.

Now instead of focusing your attention on one chick you now have to do on two at the same time! if she likes you and her friend doesn't, you better believe that her friend will try to c0ckblock and sabotage the date. Those two already had a pre-arrange conversation saying that one of them will rescue the other if they find you to be a creep or boring.

SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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DJDamage said:
SARGE IN THE REAL WORLD AND DON"T DO BLIND DATES OR GO OUT WITH CHICKS THAT CLAIM THEY NEED A BUDDY SYSTEM!
This should be a "Man Law." :up:

Maybe even add it to the list of DJ commandments.
 

backbreaker

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yeah, nothing screams "I don't think of you sexually" like I'm bringing a buddy.

your GF doesn't need a Buddy over the house when she wants to blow you does she?
 
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