i just tried picking up this girl in starbucks just now.. turns out she spent the past 3 years back in my families country which threw me off my game as i got too excited.
anyway i f'd up the first 5 mins of convo and she was like 'i need to get back to my application'
then she packed up after 5 mins.. and i tried attempting to engage convo with her to attract her to make up for my poor showing first time round. was under time pressure tho. negged a bit.
anyway i suggested we get together.. and then she gives me the whole fake number thing.. how should u react to this? i knew what she was doing but didnt want to say anything.. felt agrieved tho.
what should u do when she gives u a fake number and u call it and it fails? i told her.. 'it doesn't work' then shes like 'give me yours' i generally dont want to give my number out to girls cos i know that means they're not interested. but i wrote it down anyway. maybe i shoulda said 'its cool dont worry i'll see u around' cos by giving my number she knows im interested still, but saying no then she'll feel shes lost me even if she doesnt want me.
she then proceeds to give me her email saying 'i dont do phones..' im like 'what? how do u not do phones..' she had a phone out on the table with her i saw and she goes 'i didnt bring my phone' i didnt say anythign about seeing it i dont know if theres any point really.. she gives me her email and goes 'i dont do phones i do email' i go 'you're making this very difficult' then i go 'well i dont do email'
she said bye but i didnt really acknowledge her in more than a friendly way.
not interested. my fault for not gaming her properly. i might as well throw away this email address, shes lying to me that she didn't have a phone.. should i have said something about seeing 1 on her table just before?
its just insulting my intelligence really.
anyway i f'd up the first 5 mins of convo and she was like 'i need to get back to my application'
then she packed up after 5 mins.. and i tried attempting to engage convo with her to attract her to make up for my poor showing first time round. was under time pressure tho. negged a bit.
anyway i suggested we get together.. and then she gives me the whole fake number thing.. how should u react to this? i knew what she was doing but didnt want to say anything.. felt agrieved tho.
what should u do when she gives u a fake number and u call it and it fails? i told her.. 'it doesn't work' then shes like 'give me yours' i generally dont want to give my number out to girls cos i know that means they're not interested. but i wrote it down anyway. maybe i shoulda said 'its cool dont worry i'll see u around' cos by giving my number she knows im interested still, but saying no then she'll feel shes lost me even if she doesnt want me.
she then proceeds to give me her email saying 'i dont do phones..' im like 'what? how do u not do phones..' she had a phone out on the table with her i saw and she goes 'i didnt bring my phone' i didnt say anythign about seeing it i dont know if theres any point really.. she gives me her email and goes 'i dont do phones i do email' i go 'you're making this very difficult' then i go 'well i dont do email'
she said bye but i didnt really acknowledge her in more than a friendly way.
not interested. my fault for not gaming her properly. i might as well throw away this email address, shes lying to me that she didn't have a phone.. should i have said something about seeing 1 on her table just before?
its just insulting my intelligence really.