Aesthetix29
Senior Don Juan
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Probably who knows ... I'll never find out. Either way I've moved on, although a few weeks down the line I think I'll hear off her. Definitely erratic behaviour!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She's blocked me
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I had something like this happen to me a few days ago. I took it to mean one of a few things:
1. She actually hates me and was only pretending to be on good terms with me because she's paranoid about crazy guys/too cowardly to say no.
2. I'm worth less than trash to her and she found a replacement
3. She wanted me to strike while the iron was hot and got salty that I didn't move fast enough or something like that.
In any case, she's probably a psycho b!tch and you don't want anything to do with her anyway, figure out what you did wrong so you don't do it again next time but don't lose sleep over some woman who treats men like toys to use, play with and throw away.
1. She actually hates me and was only pretending to be on good terms with me because she's paranoid about crazy guys/too cowardly to say no.
2. I'm worth less than trash to her and she found a replacement
3. She wanted me to strike while the iron was hot and got salty that I didn't move fast enough or something like that.
In any case, she's probably a psycho b!tch and you don't want anything to do with her anyway, figure out what you did wrong so you don't do it again next time but don't lose sleep over some woman who treats men like toys to use, play with and throw away.
But the advice is timeless
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.