Aesthetix29
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Probably who knows ... I'll never find out. Either way I've moved on, although a few weeks down the line I think I'll hear off her. Definitely erratic behaviour!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She's blocked me
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I had something like this happen to me a few days ago. I took it to mean one of a few things:
1. She actually hates me and was only pretending to be on good terms with me because she's paranoid about crazy guys/too cowardly to say no.
2. I'm worth less than trash to her and she found a replacement
3. She wanted me to strike while the iron was hot and got salty that I didn't move fast enough or something like that.
In any case, she's probably a psycho b!tch and you don't want anything to do with her anyway, figure out what you did wrong so you don't do it again next time but don't lose sleep over some woman who treats men like toys to use, play with and throw away.
1. She actually hates me and was only pretending to be on good terms with me because she's paranoid about crazy guys/too cowardly to say no.
2. I'm worth less than trash to her and she found a replacement
3. She wanted me to strike while the iron was hot and got salty that I didn't move fast enough or something like that.
In any case, she's probably a psycho b!tch and you don't want anything to do with her anyway, figure out what you did wrong so you don't do it again next time but don't lose sleep over some woman who treats men like toys to use, play with and throw away.
But the advice is timeless
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.