She wont leave me alone!

[and1play5]

This girl put me in the friend zone by telling me "I just see you as a friend,sorry" after I told her I was feeling her. I cut ties with her (tried to) but she would talk to me on AIM and now for summer classes we live on the same floor. Every day at least twice she'll come up to my room and just chill like nothing happened. Actually the other day my roomates & I were having a conversation about relationships & she was saying how she can never keep a man and how her longest relationship was six weeks & she said she wants to be happy with someone regardless of looks...she wants someone who wont cheat on her. The whole time all of my roomates are looking at her like he's next to you. I know the only reason though that she comes over though is because she doesnt really know anyone else on the floor or on campus for that matter. I just want to tell her to stop coming over because i'm not getting any gain out of this and to make things worse she wears the most seductive clothes so you have no choice but to want her to come in. I honestly would wife her up with the quickness if given the chance but I dont feel like getting excited for something that has already dissapointed me.

What should I do? all opinions would be recommended

 

[decadentdestruction]

ignore her.

 

[CORVETTE06]

****in crush her. make her chase you. when she comes over make sure u look good, act like ur too busy for her. let her talk for a lil and listen then say , actually i gotta go now to meet someone. act like u got things to do. make her think u got some other chick. she will chase u

 

[and1play5]

aight I see what you guys mean. I mean though she is always in here and its like having gold you can't have. She also said I was skinny...she said she's mad I weigh less than she does. I don't feel like putting anymore in this because I'm not getting anywhere with her.

 

[JezZA]

Yeah dude, I'd follow Corvette06 on this one.

 

[spider_007]

be honest, tell her the truth - notting wrong with that.

 

[Obsidian]

be honest, tell her the truth - notting wrong with that.

Can we say LAME?

****in crush her. make her chase you. when she comes over make sure u look good, act like ur too busy for her. let her talk for a lil and listen then say , actually i gotta go now to meet someone. act like u got things to do. make her think u got some other chick. she will chase u

Now there's some good advice. Or, alternatively, just don't answer the door.

 

[Last Man Standing]

I would pursue her aggressively and constantly - she'll get the hint that you are not

You should pursue her aggressively and constantly - she'll get the hint that you are not interested in being her friend!!!!

 

[Desdinova]

Tell her you don't need any more female friends, and let her know that you're too busy to pursue a friendship with her. Then, go read the DJ Bible (link at the bottom of the page).

People don't fvck their friends. If you display "friend" characteristics to women, they will become your friend. If you display sexual characteristics to women, they will have sex with you.

 

[Bvbidd]

Corvette gave the best advice. Do that. Seriously it's the only thing that'll get you in her pants. The others are just KBJing. *ahem Last One Standing..* Once you see her starting to get interested make a move and she'll justify it to herself that she likes you and it's okay.

Last One Standing's advice won't work unless she's already falling for you. Oh yeah also don't tell the truth that's not only lame but she'll get freaked out. lol gold I can't have!

 

[Bvbidd]

The above advice is good yeah, but if you do it too much you'll still be that friend that's always there making jokes. Give yourself a little value.

 

[and1play5]

I think that's kind of my problem right there because I believe I do too much. I don't really know how start like a good conversation or something that would let her know I'm feeling her or create attraction in her. Any tips or things I could say.

 

[and1play5]

What should I do?