"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She wont leave me alone!

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This girl put me in the friend zone by telling me "I just see you as a friend,sorry" after I told her I was feeling her. I cut ties with her (tried to) but she would talk to me on AIM and now for summer classes we live on the same floor. Every day at least twice she'll come up to my room and just chill like nothing happened. Actually the other day my roomates & I were having a conversation about relationships & she was saying how she can never keep a man and how her longest relationship was six weeks & she said she wants to be happy with someone regardless of looks...she wants someone who wont cheat on her. The whole time all of my roomates are looking at her like he's next to you. I know the only reason though that she comes over though is because she doesnt really know anyone else on the floor or on campus for that matter. I just want to tell her to stop coming over because i'm not getting any gain out of this and to make things worse she wears the most seductive clothes so you have no choice but to want her to come in. I honestly would wife her up with the quickness if given the chance but I dont feel like getting excited for something that has already dissapointed me.

What should I do? all opinions would be recommended
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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****in crush her. make her chase you. when she comes over make sure u look good, act like ur too busy for her. let her talk for a lil and listen then say , actually i gotta go now to meet someone. act like u got things to do. make her think u got some other chick. she will chase u
 
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aight I see what you guys mean. I mean though she is always in here and its like having gold you can't have. She also said I was skinny...she said she's mad I weigh less than she does. I don't feel like putting anymore in this because I'm not getting anywhere with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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spider_007 said:
be honest, tell her the truth - notting wrong with that.
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Can we say LAME?


CORVETTE06 said:
****in crush her. make her chase you. when she comes over make sure u look good, act like ur too busy for her. let her talk for a lil and listen then say , actually i gotta go now to meet someone. act like u got things to do. make her think u got some other chick. she will chase u
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Now there's some good advice. Or, alternatively, just don't answer the door.
 
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I would pursue her aggressively and constantly - she'll get the hint that you are not

You should pursue her aggressively and constantly - she'll get the hint that you are not interested in being her friend!!!!
 
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Tell her you don't need any more female friends, and let her know that you're too busy to pursue a friendship with her. Then, go read the DJ Bible (link at the bottom of the page).

People don't fvck their friends. If you display "friend" characteristics to women, they will become your friend. If you display sexual characteristics to women, they will have sex with you.
 
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Corvette gave the best advice. Do that. Seriously it's the only thing that'll get you in her pants. The others are just KBJing. *ahem Last One Standing..* Once you see her starting to get interested make a move and she'll justify it to herself that she likes you and it's okay.

Last One Standing's advice won't work unless she's already falling for you. Oh yeah also don't tell the truth that's not only lame but she'll get freaked out. lol gold I can't have!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The above advice is good yeah, but if you do it too much you'll still be that friend that's always there making jokes. Give yourself a little value.
 
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I think that's kind of my problem right there because I believe I do too much. I don't really know how start like a good conversation or something that would let her know I'm feeling her or create attraction in her. Any tips or things I could say.
 
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