I broke up with my GF of 13 months about 2-3 months ago. Recently, she told me that one of the reasons she doubted our relationship is that she thought she loved me too much. She said it's dangerous because it could make her possessive, obsessive, overprotective, etc. Her friends and mother also tell her that don't love a guy too much. I don't get it. What's wrong with giving so much love?? It's not that I didn't love her back..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She was afraid she loved me too much.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Personally it just sounds like a weak excuse. You don't stop talking to your parents or children because you love them too much.
It may be chic speak for, I can't tame and control you and I am afraid to be submissive to you because I might loose myself and you might run all over me. Or it could just be a nice way to let you down easy. Don't stress it...just move on. If she really loved you she wouldn't be trying to play these power struggle games.
It may be chic speak for, I can't tame and control you and I am afraid to be submissive to you because I might loose myself and you might run all over me. Or it could just be a nice way to let you down easy. Don't stress it...just move on. If she really loved you she wouldn't be trying to play these power struggle games.
KontrollerX
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Very nice.
Glad one of you finally ended that disaster dude.
Now you can finally focus on getting a better girl for yourself.
Glad one of you finally ended that disaster dude.
Now you can finally focus on getting a better girl for yourself.
Trajhenkhet01
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Someone that really loves you wouldn't do anything like that. Of course real love is pretty rare these days.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.