I broke up with my GF of 13 months about 2-3 months ago. Recently, she told me that one of the reasons she doubted our relationship is that she thought she loved me too much. She said it's dangerous because it could make her possessive, obsessive, overprotective, etc. Her friends and mother also tell her that don't love a guy too much. I don't get it. What's wrong with giving so much love?? It's not that I didn't love her back..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She was afraid she loved me too much.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Personally it just sounds like a weak excuse. You don't stop talking to your parents or children because you love them too much.
It may be chic speak for, I can't tame and control you and I am afraid to be submissive to you because I might loose myself and you might run all over me. Or it could just be a nice way to let you down easy. Don't stress it...just move on. If she really loved you she wouldn't be trying to play these power struggle games.
It may be chic speak for, I can't tame and control you and I am afraid to be submissive to you because I might loose myself and you might run all over me. Or it could just be a nice way to let you down easy. Don't stress it...just move on. If she really loved you she wouldn't be trying to play these power struggle games.
KontrollerX
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Very nice.
Glad one of you finally ended that disaster dude.
Now you can finally focus on getting a better girl for yourself.
Glad one of you finally ended that disaster dude.
Now you can finally focus on getting a better girl for yourself.
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Someone that really loves you wouldn't do anything like that. Of course real love is pretty rare these days.
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