"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?

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Just Another Guy....

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She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PhatE1vis

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Sounds to me like she took you through a two-step process that works to her advantage.

Step 1: She establishes that she's in a relationship and not interested in you romantically through the whole not talking thing.

Step 2: Once she's established that, she feels comfortable talking with you again because now you're her girlfriend.

What do you talk about with her?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just Another Guy.... said:
She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
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Well, sounds like she's getting her relationship needs filled. She's dating someone she's attracted to who fills her physical needs and she has you to fulfill her emotional needs that her boyfriend lacks. The boyfriend also comes out ahead because he's able to get his own physical needs filled without having to provide emotional support. You and this girl can be BFF! All is well in the world! :p
 
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Like that guy up there said; you do the work, he get's the pu$$y! :p

I hope your internet connection doesn't go out! :whistle:
 
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DonJuan11

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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?
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That is a strange sentence. It should be "she wants to talk less, but ends up talking more"


It's like when I was younger I was always confused by that NBC show Today.

When they did a commercial for it on Wednesday for Thursday's show, they would say "That's tomorrow, on today"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Make her jealous. Ignore her and go talk to some other hot females. Your too busy for her. Basically, you next her without actually doing it
 
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