"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?

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Just Another Guy....

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She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PhatE1vis

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Sounds to me like she took you through a two-step process that works to her advantage.

Step 1: She establishes that she's in a relationship and not interested in you romantically through the whole not talking thing.

Step 2: Once she's established that, she feels comfortable talking with you again because now you're her girlfriend.

What do you talk about with her?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just Another Guy.... said:
She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
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Well, sounds like she's getting her relationship needs filled. She's dating someone she's attracted to who fills her physical needs and she has you to fulfill her emotional needs that her boyfriend lacks. The boyfriend also comes out ahead because he's able to get his own physical needs filled without having to provide emotional support. You and this girl can be BFF! All is well in the world! :p
 
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Like that guy up there said; you do the work, he get's the pu$$y! :p

I hope your internet connection doesn't go out! :whistle:
 
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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?
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That is a strange sentence. It should be "she wants to talk less, but ends up talking more"


It's like when I was younger I was always confused by that NBC show Today.

When they did a commercial for it on Wednesday for Thursday's show, they would say "That's tomorrow, on today"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Make her jealous. Ignore her and go talk to some other hot females. Your too busy for her. Basically, you next her without actually doing it
 
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