"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?

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Just Another Guy....

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She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PhatE1vis

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Sounds to me like she took you through a two-step process that works to her advantage.

Step 1: She establishes that she's in a relationship and not interested in you romantically through the whole not talking thing.

Step 2: Once she's established that, she feels comfortable talking with you again because now you're her girlfriend.

What do you talk about with her?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just Another Guy.... said:
She's got a BF and really hasn't shown much interest, but I enjoy talking to her. We're a lot alike and we share a lot of interests.

Anywho, we talked one day and we agreed to talk less because she's in a relationship.

I was ready to next her.

But, she finds me a lot and we talk a lot on campus. It's kinda weird, we're talking more now, since she said she wanted to talk less.

wtf?
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Well, sounds like she's getting her relationship needs filled. She's dating someone she's attracted to who fills her physical needs and she has you to fulfill her emotional needs that her boyfriend lacks. The boyfriend also comes out ahead because he's able to get his own physical needs filled without having to provide emotional support. You and this girl can be BFF! All is well in the world! :p
 
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Like that guy up there said; you do the work, he get's the pu$$y! :p

I hope your internet connection doesn't go out! :whistle:
 
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DonJuan11

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She wants to talk less, but she wants to talk more?
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That is a strange sentence. It should be "she wants to talk less, but ends up talking more"


It's like when I was younger I was always confused by that NBC show Today.

When they did a commercial for it on Wednesday for Thursday's show, they would say "That's tomorrow, on today"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make her jealous. Ignore her and go talk to some other hot females. Your too busy for her. Basically, you next her without actually doing it
 
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