"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She wants to meet up...

Essa Rios

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So i posted personal ad on Craigslist and just started communication with this
chick by email/text. I try to keep my text short but funny and always make it
seem like i'm "busy" hanging with friends. Must be working as she wants to meet up. Invited me to her Xmas house party but i already had "plans". Now
she's asking when my next free day is to finally meet. Her IL seems really high, should i go for it or wait till after the new year. We already exhanged pic's as well. I've met lots of girls on CL so you guys should give it a try.
But this one seems really aggressive to see each other. Keeping my fingers
crossed that it might be easy score if you know what i mean.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct

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Strike when the iron's hot. Delaying a first meet with an online chick with high IL is rarely a good idea. She has a world of sausage at her fingertips, but right now, would prefer it be you.

Meet up for a drink at some place not far from your place. You know the rest.
 

rtrev64

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Man, those chicks on CL are really risky..I dont go there. I hit up POF-Plenty of fish. I get mine from there..Thats my pool.. I struck out alot but scored alot. funny they all say they are not looking for one night stands or mr right now, Im banging them second date..LOL.

On the first date, they ready to rape me..
 
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