"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She wants to meet up...

Essa Rios

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So i posted personal ad on Craigslist and just started communication with this
chick by email/text. I try to keep my text short but funny and always make it
seem like i'm "busy" hanging with friends. Must be working as she wants to meet up. Invited me to her Xmas house party but i already had "plans". Now
she's asking when my next free day is to finally meet. Her IL seems really high, should i go for it or wait till after the new year. We already exhanged pic's as well. I've met lots of girls on CL so you guys should give it a try.
But this one seems really aggressive to see each other. Keeping my fingers
crossed that it might be easy score if you know what i mean.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mike32ct

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Strike when the iron's hot. Delaying a first meet with an online chick with high IL is rarely a good idea. She has a world of sausage at her fingertips, but right now, would prefer it be you.

Meet up for a drink at some place not far from your place. You know the rest.
 

rtrev64

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Man, those chicks on CL are really risky..I dont go there. I hit up POF-Plenty of fish. I get mine from there..Thats my pool.. I struck out alot but scored alot. funny they all say they are not looking for one night stands or mr right now, Im banging them second date..LOL.

On the first date, they ready to rape me..
 
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