"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She wants to meet up...

Essa Rios

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So i posted personal ad on Craigslist and just started communication with this
chick by email/text. I try to keep my text short but funny and always make it
seem like i'm "busy" hanging with friends. Must be working as she wants to meet up. Invited me to her Xmas house party but i already had "plans". Now
she's asking when my next free day is to finally meet. Her IL seems really high, should i go for it or wait till after the new year. We already exhanged pic's as well. I've met lots of girls on CL so you guys should give it a try.
But this one seems really aggressive to see each other. Keeping my fingers
crossed that it might be easy score if you know what i mean.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike32ct

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Strike when the iron's hot. Delaying a first meet with an online chick with high IL is rarely a good idea. She has a world of sausage at her fingertips, but right now, would prefer it be you.

Meet up for a drink at some place not far from your place. You know the rest.
 

rtrev64

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Man, those chicks on CL are really risky..I dont go there. I hit up POF-Plenty of fish. I get mine from there..Thats my pool.. I struck out alot but scored alot. funny they all say they are not looking for one night stands or mr right now, Im banging them second date..LOL.

On the first date, they ready to rape me..
 
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