Jair213
Master Don Juan
When a chick tells you that she wants to drink with you alone at either the beach, park, lake or your place.
Does this lead to sex 100% of the time?
Does this lead to sex 100% of the time?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Harry Wilmington
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No, but it should 
Seriously, though: a woman won't usually just come out and say "hey, let's go to your place and have sex" because she doesn't want to be viewed in a negative light. However, what women WILL do is try and set up scenarios where things could "just happen" to lead to other things happening. So, if she's saying "let's have drinks and get drunk at your place by ourselves," what she's REALLY saying is:
"I want to have sex with you. If we go to your place and you have alcohol, I can drink enough to where I can have sex with you and make the excuse later that the alcohol made me do it."
So, give her the scenario she needs to make it happen, maaaaaan!
Seriously, though: a woman won't usually just come out and say "hey, let's go to your place and have sex" because she doesn't want to be viewed in a negative light. However, what women WILL do is try and set up scenarios where things could "just happen" to lead to other things happening. So, if she's saying "let's have drinks and get drunk at your place by ourselves," what she's REALLY saying is:
"I want to have sex with you. If we go to your place and you have alcohol, I can drink enough to where I can have sex with you and make the excuse later that the alcohol made me do it."
So, give her the scenario she needs to make it happen, maaaaaan!
Meisterman
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Does it lead to sex 100% of the time? Absolutely NOT.Jair213 said:
Does it mean she's DTF? Almost certainly
So basically yeah, it will lead to sex if you don't fu*k it up. But don't count your chickens before they hatch. You may have a lay up but you still gotta put the ball through the hoop.
Where are you gonna stay? How are you gonna initiate it? Do you have a smooth transition planned or are you playing it free willy and just hoping something comes along?
Bottom line it's in your hands but stop acting like it's just a matter of chance and if you want to make it happen then do it. I say it's in your hands because on her part is sounds like YES, she definitely is for it or she likely wouldn't suggest to drink.