Jair213
Master Don Juan
When a chick tells you that she wants to drink with you alone at either the beach, park, lake or your place.
Does this lead to sex 100% of the time?
Does this lead to sex 100% of the time?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
she wants to drink
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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No, but it should 
Seriously, though: a woman won't usually just come out and say "hey, let's go to your place and have sex" because she doesn't want to be viewed in a negative light. However, what women WILL do is try and set up scenarios where things could "just happen" to lead to other things happening. So, if she's saying "let's have drinks and get drunk at your place by ourselves," what she's REALLY saying is:
"I want to have sex with you. If we go to your place and you have alcohol, I can drink enough to where I can have sex with you and make the excuse later that the alcohol made me do it."
So, give her the scenario she needs to make it happen, maaaaaan!
Seriously, though: a woman won't usually just come out and say "hey, let's go to your place and have sex" because she doesn't want to be viewed in a negative light. However, what women WILL do is try and set up scenarios where things could "just happen" to lead to other things happening. So, if she's saying "let's have drinks and get drunk at your place by ourselves," what she's REALLY saying is:
"I want to have sex with you. If we go to your place and you have alcohol, I can drink enough to where I can have sex with you and make the excuse later that the alcohol made me do it."
So, give her the scenario she needs to make it happen, maaaaaan!
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Does it lead to sex 100% of the time? Absolutely NOT.Jair213 said:
Does it mean she's DTF? Almost certainly
So basically yeah, it will lead to sex if you don't fu*k it up. But don't count your chickens before they hatch. You may have a lay up but you still gotta put the ball through the hoop.
Where are you gonna stay? How are you gonna initiate it? Do you have a smooth transition planned or are you playing it free willy and just hoping something comes along?
Bottom line it's in your hands but stop acting like it's just a matter of chance and if you want to make it happen then do it. I say it's in your hands because on her part is sounds like YES, she definitely is for it or she likely wouldn't suggest to drink.